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21 June, 2014

MEMBANGUN SEMANGAT MENULIS PASCA KETERPURUKAN

Oleh: Sri Rahayu

Pernahkah anda mengalami kegagalan atau terpuruk?  Mungkin ya mungkin tidak.  Tapi pastinya tak satupun dari kita berharap mengalaminya.  Namun siapa yang tahu rahasia takdir dan gelap terangnya kehidupan kita.  Sebagai manusia kita hanya berharap dan berikhtiar tuk memiliki hidup terbaik.
Menulis bagi sebagian orang masih dipengaruhi oleh yang namanya "Mood".  Saat mood sedang jelek kita acap sulit untuk konsentrasi.  Inilah yang sering membuat kita lemah dan kehilangan gairah.  Ujian dan cobaan, tertolaknya berbagai ajuan outline acap membuat kita menjadi hilang semangat, walau sebenarnya ujian dan penolakan seharusnya membuat kita semakin tangguh, sayangnya kita sering lupa akan hal itu.

Saya angkat tema ini karena saya melihat banyak di antara kita termasuk saya pernah mengalami apa itu terpuruk.  Merasa hidup begitu hancur karena bisnis yang bangkrut, perceraian, perselisihan yang akhirnya membuat kita malas, atau karena hal lain.  Saat saat terpuruk kita selalu tergoda untuk meratapi nasib dan menyendiri, menjauhi lingkungan kita dan bahkan enggan melakukan aktivitas apapun.  Salah satunya saat seorang wanita mendapati pasangannya berkhianat.  Seluruh pikiran seolah terfokus pada masalah itu dan itulah titik lemah yang membuat kita akhirnya enggan menulis dan enggan beraktivitas. 

Kemudian saat kita menyadari waktu yang telah kita sia siakan dengan meratapi nasib, mungkin saat itu kita seolah lupa bagaimana caranya menulis lagi, bagaimana caranya mengolah rasa agar kalimat menjadi bermakna, enak dibaca dan indah.  Kita kembali menjadi orang gagap, kembali memulainya dari nol dan kadang ragu bahwa kita mampu tuk mengggapainya lagi.

Kisah teh Indari Mastuti dalam buku Puzzle Mimpi dapat menjadi salah satu penyemangat kita.
Kisah jatuh bangunnya seorang pengusaha yang sukses dapat kita jadikan pelajaran, bahwa hidup tak boleh berhenti selama nafas masih berhembus.

Saat saya tenggelam dalam keterpurukan yang menurut saya terberat dalam hidup, saya memilih menyendiri, menghentikan hampir sebagian besar aktivitas menulis dan fokus pada usaha untuk berjuang memperbaiki hidup.  mencari solusi terbaik.  saya hampir melupakan bahwa menulis itu tidak 100 % karena bakat, tapi karena latihan.  sama seperti bahasa Inggris, saat kita jarang menggunakannya lidah kita terasa kelu tuk melafadzkannya, kaku saat berbicara dan miskin perbendaharaan kata.  Begitupun saat itu.  Saya bingung bagaimana memulai kembali, saya seolah gagap.  Saya mengumpulkan kembali serpihan semangat yang terserak.  Mengintip beberapa tulisan para sahabat yang mulai terbit dan gentayangan di beranda.  Saya membaca status-status yang berisi motivasi dan bertanya tujuan hidup saya..tujuan saya menulis.

"Akhirnya saya temukan jawabnya, setelah saya mengintip saldo rekening saya yang mulai kosong dan dompet saya yang kian tipis."

Berbicara dengan rekan yang bisa memotivasi adalah hal positif yang  bisa kita lakukan dan alhamdulillah di group ini saya menemukan banyak sahabat yang baik yang menebarkan semangat dan pikiran positif hingga saya kembali bangkit.

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